Morning updates showed slight promise in South West Nebraska and North West Kansas. Pretty far out of reach and a long way from North Dakota / Canadian border where we'll need to be tomorrow. Decision made we headed off to Dell Rapids SD — Just a few miles to the north — the place where the first Berges settled from Norway back in the 1800's.
Neither Joel nor I had ever been to Dell Rapids. Though family lore has it that there are many Berges remaining. Our shared grandfather Melvin was the youngest of 9 brothers. Many of whom remained in the region. The Berge name is a prominent one in this corner of the plains.
We started our adventure at the local library investigating town history. Historical records of the city were fascinating. But didn't shed much light on our family history.
Next stop "The Dells." A quiet and beautiful river overlook where our grandfather proposed to our grandmother sometime in the early 1920's. Off to find the cemetery, what happened next was surprising and quite moving. The kind of event that makes one ponder the reality of divine intervention.
We stopped at the neighborhood Funeral home to ask for directions to the old cemetery and perhaps some help in finding old family plots. Not only we're the proprietors happy to help, but they knew many members of our family as our grandfather and great uncle were both funeral directors themselves. In fact the director — Mark Kahler — said that it was "because of Bert Berge that we started this funeral home!" Mark gave us a map of the old cemetery and marked all of there areas where we could find Berges so off we went.
We found the cemetery – a beautiful and peaceful place just north and west of town. after 20 mins or so of locating and photographing headstones, a big old cadillac convertible pulled up to us and out stepped an older gentleman and a young man. The gentleman looked at us curiously as Joel said "someone must have told you we were up here." The gentleman said "no." Are you a "Berge?" asked Joel. "Yes." "We'll we are too!"
Turns out this gentleman was named Arlen Knutson. His grandfather was the brother of our grandfather. Arlen took us from headstone to headstone, telling us all about the family there. Lot's of stories. Fascinating. To visit the site was moving enough. To have him there as a guide was extraordinary. Coincidence or not we all agreed that something larger than ourselves brought us together this afternoon. The weather was postcard perfect. The events of the day were once in a lifetime.
On advice form Arlen we left Dell Rapids and drove about 10 miles west to Colton SD. Arlen told that is where all of the living Berges remain so we dropped into the "Berge's Store" down town and introduced ourselves to the proprietors. Surprised and a little bewildered to have two strange men arrive unannounced and introducing themselves as family, Jill, Jeff and Peg were as nice as can be. It was a real pleasure to meet them all.
All in all it was a very special day for Joel and I. One I'll never forget.
On to Fargo ND to position for tomorrow....